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Re: link to on-line version: How can I mentor someone who doesn’t look like me?
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Sophia Wong <[log in to unmask]>
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Feminist ethics and social theory <[log in to unmask]>
Date:
Tue, 10 Jun 2008 11:36:40 -0400
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Dear FEASTies,

Shay raises an important point about her experiences of class
difference.  A friend of mine has suggested that I should change the
title of the piece to "How can I mentor someone who ISN'T like me"
rather than "who doesn't LOOK LIKE me" because many differences,
including class, are masked by one's appearance.  People who look the
same may in fact be very different inside.  This also includes
differences in religious beliefs and political affiliations, as Kate
Norlock pointed out to me.

Would anyone like to chime in with an anecdote illustrating the
feeling of un-relatability or the fear of being discovered/co-opted
into elitism that Shay describes below?

Sophia

Sophia Wong, Ph.D.
Assistant Professor
Department of Philosophy
Long Island University, Brooklyn Campus
www.sophiawong.info

On Mon, Jun 9, 2008 at 6:37 PM, Shay Welch <[log in to unmask]> wrote:
> I do think that somewhere someone should address the difficulties that come
> from class/cultural difference.  While I do not go nearly as far as some
> others, I do believe that class difference makes for nearly insurmountable
> obstacles (at least in my mind).  There is a similar, though unique, feeling
> of un-relatability that comes from knowing that they "(secretly) know what
> you really are (secretly)" and a fear of being discovered or even co-opted
> into the elitism.
> Shay
>
> On Mon, Jun 9, 2008 at 1:52 PM, Sophia Wong <[log in to unmask]> wrote:
>>
>> Dear FEASTers,
>>
>> Many thanks to those who wrote encouraging me to post my short piece,
>> "How can I mentor someone who doesn't look like me?" on my website,
>> and to revise and expand it for publication.  I have posted the draft
>> on my website here where anyone may link to it or print it out for
>> colleagues who might find it useful:
>> http://sophiawong.info/mentoring-for-diversity/
>>
>> If anyone has related anecdotes or similar tips on mentoring to share,
>> I would be delighted to include them in the expanded version of this
>> piece.
>>
>> Best wishes,
>> Sophia
>>
>> Sophia Isako Wong, Ph.D.
>> Assistant Professor
>> Department of Philosophy
>> Long Island University, Brooklyn Campus
>> www.sophiawong.info
>
>

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