At the urging of Alison Jaggar (and through her, Diana Meyers), I am
sharing with FEAST-L the comment Sandra Bartky asked me to post on
Facebook. I'll just quote the entire Facebook post, as it includes a bit
more about my conversation with Sandy about Claudia. (I should note also
that, over the years, Sandy has shared many stories about her friendship
with Claudia, ranging from both happy and not-so-happy stories about
Midwest SWIP to a shopping escapade in Chicago.) Here is the Facebook post:

Just had a wonderful hour chatting with Sandra Bartky. The occasion was to
let her know about our loss of Claudia Card, and Sandy asked me to post on
FB this comment from her:

"Your work has taught me much, and your friendship has enriched my life. I
will never forget you, dear Claudia."

So that is the main purpose of this post, but Sandy went on to reminisce
about her experiences in the founding of SWIP, which started out with a few
women meeting in hotel rooms at APA meetings, discussing the shared
problems they were facing in their academic careers. We talked about how
extraordinary it is that those informal meetings have led to SWIP becoming
an international phenomenon.

After SWIP got a bit better organized, Claudia came to one of the meetings.
Sandy said she seemed a bit frightened and withdrawn, altogether different
from the internationally known philosopher she became! (I'm hoping young
academics will extrapolate freely!)

We made a plan for Luna and I to get together with Sandy in the winter or
spring and make some video recordings of her SWIP memories, and her other
recollections about an amazing life. The plan is for them to be posted on
youtube. Trust me, based on conversations the three of us have had in years
past, she has some extraordinary tales to tell!

On Monday, September 21, 2015, Alison M Jaggar <[log in to unmask]>
wrote:

> It is already more than a week since we lost Claudia Card. In that time,
> there has been an outpouring of grief but also many testimonies to a
> brilliant philosopher, dedicated teacher, and generous mentor. Claudia was
> all of these, but I’d like additionally to emphasize her extraordinary
> courage. In a short remembrance posted on Facebook, Sandra Bartky recalls
> perceiving Claudia as timid when she first started coming to mid-west SWIP
> in the late 1970s. I too remember Claudia at this time as being rather
> shrinking, with a demure braid down her back. Within a very few years,
> however, Claudia cut her hair and came out of the closet. With Anne Waters,
> I recall Claudia’s bow tie and three piece suit from Germany and I too
> recall Claudia dancing at the parties. After a decade of professional
> silence, Claudia found a new philosophical voice in the early 1980s and
> from then until her death she produced a powerful flow of incisive articles
> and books. Three decades ago, it took more courage to be a feminist
> philosopher than it does today, let alone a philosopher speaking with an
> explicitly lesbian voice. Claudia raised topics that were virtually taboo
> and challenged the views prevailing even among feminist and lesbian
> philosophers. She discussed lesbian battering and horizontal violence,
> sadomasochism, feminist separatism, and adult child sex, arguing against
> marriage and motherhood and even opposing same sex marriage. Later in her
> career, Claudia addressed directly and deeply topics that many philosophers
> shrink from thinking about, including mass atrocities and genocidal rape. I
> was frequently struck by Claudia’s vast empirical knowledge about what she
> called these secular evils, research that must have been deeply disturbing
> but which made possible her moral insights. Over the past year, Claudia
> faced her impending death with a calmness and good humor that many of us
> found inspirational. Courage should be recognized as a central
> philosophical virtue and no one had more of it than Claudia Card. We will
> try to be worthy of you, Claudia!
>
>
>
>  Much love,
>
> Alison.
>
>
>
>
> Alison M. Jaggar
> University of Colorado at Boulder
> College Professor of Distinction, Philosophy and Women and Gender Studies
> Distinguished Research Professor, University of Birmingham, UK
> Boulder, CO 80309-0232
> 303-492-8997 (direct line)
> 303-492-6132 (dept. office)
> 303-492-8386 (fax)
>
>
> ------------------------------
> *From:* Feminist ethics and social theory <[log in to unmask]
> <javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml',[log in to unmask]);>> on behalf of
> kathy miriam <[log in to unmask]
> <javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml',[log in to unmask]);>>
> *Sent:* Wednesday, September 16, 2015 10:53 AM
> *To:* [log in to unmask]
> <javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml',[log in to unmask]);>
> *Subject:* Re: Claudia Card
>
> I want to add my words to Bonnie's.  Claudia was a true mentor, not only
> bringing to us her pioneering lucid radical feminist .lesbian feminist
> thought, but i agree with bonnie, a model senior mentor to juniors. She had
> already reviewed an essay, in detail, that i had contributed to a non
> academic theory book called Unlearning Saodomasochism edited by Irene Reti.
>  she showed an amazing generosity as an academic--indeed a *renowned*
> academic-- in treating a non peer reviewed book with the kind of attention
> it deserved, since a couple of articles were theoretically rigorous. She
> paid close attention to my article and especially it's non didactic
> proposals in a way no reviewer ever has. Years later, when i was up for
> tenure she wrote me a stunning review letter. I later contacted her for
> supportive letters of recommendation when i needed to find a new job, and
> she was thoroughly in agreement despite the fact that we had only met
> briefly years before and she might not have even remembered me. (Sandra
> Bartky is another example of this kind of true senior mentor).
>
> Her aim was true.  This is a big loss. As a feminist philosopher/writer
> suffering from cancer myself, i'm reminded of how much work there is to be
> done, but grateful for those who preceded me to allow me and then my
> students to make it go forward.
> thanks to all of you who are dedicating panels and essays in appreciation
> of her. she went too young.
>
> sincerely
> Kathy Miriam
>
> On Sun, Sep 13, 2015 at 3:46 PM, Bonnie Mann <[log in to unmask]
> <javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml',[log in to unmask]);>> wrote:
>
>> What heartbreaking news. For me as a philosopher new to the profession in
>> 2003, Claudia extended herself as a source of support on a number of
>> occasions. She showed such an intense interest and level of care, I was
>> both moved and surprised (we didn't know one another before this). She is a
>> model for me of what a senior woman colleague can be, and can mean to
>> someone more junior. All that above and beyond her extraordinary and
>> important philosophical work... I won't be at FEAST this year, but I will
>> wish I were there with the rest of you remembering her.
>>
>> Bonnie
>>
>> ---
>> Dr. Bonnie Mann
>> Head and Associate Professor of Philosophy
>> Department of Philosophy
>> University of Oregon
>> Eugene, OR 97403-1295
>> [log in to unmask] <javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml',[log in to unmask]);>
>> 541-346-5549
>>
>> On 2015/09/13 11:47, Lynne Tirrell wrote:
>>
>>> Carol, check with Robin Dillon, who organized 2 sessions honoring
>>> Claudia, sponsored by the Society for Analytic Feminism. One at the
>>> Eastern APA, one at the Central.
>>>
>>>  Lynne Tirrell
>>>  Sent from my iPhone
>>>
>>>  On Sep 13, 2015, at 12:06 PM, "Carol Gould" <[log in to unmask]
>>> <javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml',[log in to unmask]);>>
>>> wrote:
>>>
>>> I'm saddened to hear of Claudia's passing. She was an exceptional
>>>> philosopher, a generous mentor to many, and a wonderful person. She
>>>> will be missed.
>>>>
>>>> I plan to dedicate an upcoming issue of the _Journal of Social
>>>> Philosophy_ to her memory (as a modest, though inadequate, gesture
>>>> to her accomplishments and influence). If there is a symposium on
>>>> her work, I would be glad to see the papers published in the journal
>>>> as well.
>>>>
>>>> All best,
>>>> Carol
>>>>
>>>> Carol Gould
>>>> Distinguished Professor
>>>> Philosophy, Hunter College; Doctoral Programs in Philosophy and
>>>> Political Science, The Graduate Center, City University of New York
>>>>
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>>>> [1]
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>>>> Institute:
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>>>> [3]
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>>>>
>>>> On Sun, Sep 13, 2015 at 12:40 PM, Meyers, Diana
>>>> <[log in to unmask]
>>>> <javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml',[log in to unmask]);>> wrote:
>>>>
>>>> Excellent suggestion, Lisa. Another possibility would be to meet
>>>> over coffee before the morning sessions start on Thursday or Friday.
>>>>
>>>>
>>>> **************************************
>>>> Diana Tietjens Meyers
>>>> Professor Emerita of Philosophy
>>>> University of Connecticut, Storrs
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>>>> [5]/
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>>>> From: Feminist ethics and social theory <[log in to unmask]
>>>> <javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml',[log in to unmask]);>>
>>>> on behalf of Lisa Tessman <[log in to unmask]
>>>> <javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml',[log in to unmask]);>>
>>>> Reply-To: Lisa Tessman <[log in to unmask]
>>>> <javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml',[log in to unmask]);>>
>>>> Date: Sunday, September 13, 2015 at 12:34 PM
>>>> To: "[log in to unmask]
>>>> <javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml',[log in to unmask]);>" <
>>>> [log in to unmask]
>>>> <javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml',[log in to unmask]);>>
>>>> Subject: Re: Claudia Card
>>>>
>>>> I hope that we can dedicate some time at the upcoming FEAST
>>>> conference to remember Claudia -- perhaps an open mike at one of the
>>>> receptions. So many of us are terribly sad.
>>>>
>>>> Lisa
>>>>
>>>> On Sun, Sep 13, 2015 at 10:48 AM, Joan Callahan
>>>> <[log in to unmask]
>>>> <javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml',[log in to unmask]);>> wrote:
>>>>
>>>> As many of you now know, Claudia Card died last night at about 8 pm,
>>>> surrounded by loving family members.
>>>>
>>>> I know of at least two APA sessions (Eastern and Central) that had
>>>> already been planned to honor Claudia and her work.
>>>>
>>>> I hope folks will use the FEAST and SWIP lists to let us know of
>>>> other such events that might be planned.
>>>>
>>>> Joan
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>>>>
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