Dear men of so many (shared) words,

Is it only modern Western toddlers who separate their sense of self from 
their mother (and others)?

Best,

Lene

On 14-10-2019 11:21, Alexander Bard wrote:
> Dear Gregg
>
> Point taken. And America is also Pragmatism, both Peirce and Whitehead 
> are firmly rooted in community and intersubjectivity (inherited from 
> Hegel).
> America would do really well with a huge Pragmatist revival as opposed 
> to today's one-fight-against-everybody vulgar Cartesianism. Isn't that 
> what both you and Zak Stein do already?
> My opposition is therefore against your ORDER of things with 
> "Individual" first. Why even start with The Individual? Is that merely 
> because Psychologists's sales-pitches always start as self-help 
> manuals? Or why else?
> As Wittgenstein says, we are 100% social, every word we use is 
> borrowed from somebody else. Priority must be given to "colaboration" 
> over "competition" because it is way more correct for humans.
>
> Best
> Alexander
>
> Den sön 13 okt. 2019 kl 14:18 skrev Henriques, Gregg - henriqgx 
> <[log in to unmask] <mailto:[log in to unmask]>>:
>
>     Bard,
>
>       There is much to be said for understanding the human unit as the
>     Dunbar “socioont” and we in the US, with our history of embracing
>     hyper-individualistic objectivist philosophies like that of Ayn
>     Rand need to see that we are defined by intersubjective dialogue
>     and the movement of the herd in a way that Rand foolishly denies.
>
>       However, I think we can go too far in our rejection of the
>     individual. I prefer the Bronfenbrenner socio-ecological lens of
>     concentric circles, from the individual to family to the
>     clan/tribe/community to the nation to the globe.
>
>       But the (in)dividual or subjective agent is a fundamental unit.
>     Personality psychology lives in relation to social psych.
>
>
>     G
>
>     *From:* tree of knowledge system discussion
>     <[log in to unmask]
>     <mailto:[log in to unmask]>> *On Behalf Of *Alexander Bard
>     *Sent:* Sunday, October 13, 2019 8:09 AM
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>     *Subject:* Re: Basic interactions.
>
>     Dear Waldemar
>
>     Acually no.
>
>     The "I" primacy is a typically European modernist starting point
>     and not at all universal.
>
>     Still the predominant starting point among within American and
>     European middle class discourse.
>
>     But again, not at all universal and not even historically relevant
>     outside of the Cartesian-Kantian paradigm that still dominates
>     Western academia but which the Internet Revolution is about to
>     explode.
>
>     You see, the rest of the world starts with a tribal we. Usually
>     around the Dubar number of 157. Nothing is less than 157.
>
>     So much for "higher perspectives". It rather seems it takes an
>     awful lot of effort for western middle class people to arrive
>     where the rest of humanity starts from.
>
>     Wilber is a Cartesian. I would much prefer if we could leave that
>     religious conviction behind or at least not pretend it is a
>     universally valid norm.
>
>     And what does behaviporism prove to us if not that we behave as
>     swarms and/or flocks 99,9% of the time? No "individuals" at all in
>     action. But swarms and flocks that at most contain dividuals.
>
>     Tthe future belongs to social psychology (like Peterson and
>     Vervaeke) and not individual psychology at all. We are all already
>     social and nothing but social.
>
>     Big love
>
>     Alexander
>
>     Den lör 12 okt. 2019 kl 05:46 skrev Waldemar A Schmidt, PhD, MD
>     <[log in to unmask] <mailto:[log in to unmask]>>:
>
>         Alexander (Bard):
>
>         I am reading your works very carefully.
>         And I value the insights they invoke within me.
>         Slowly, to be sure, I am trained in medicine and science, not
>         philosophy.
>         But there are some truths that apply to Puerto Rican mothers
>         of 5, as well as grandfathers of 5, such as myself:
>
>              There is an “I”.
>              There is a relationship of “I” with “I” within “I.”
>              There is an I-Thou relationship.
>              There is an I-It relationship.
>
>         And we all struggle to keep a balance within those.
>         That balance requires looking at things such as paradigms.
>         It won’t put food on the table.
>         But, it might help to do so with elan.
>
>         Nonetheless, keep poking, brother!
>
>
>         Best regards,
>
>         Waldemar
>
>
>
>         Waldemar A Schmidt, PhD, MD
>         (Perseveret et Percipiunt)
>         Sent from my iPad
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