On Jun 23, 2020, at 10:39 AM, Cole Butler <[log in to unmask]> wrote:

Hi all,

I will echo Gregg's gratitude and sentiments here. I found this discussion particularly meaningful and helpful during these difficult times. The resources and actionable suggestions were great, and I hope to see more of that approach in how people tackle this. Additionally, the real narratives from our discussants and others provided a real human element and personal insight on this topic that I think it's hard for people to see without listening to stories such as those. The discussion prompted me to post on my social media, and I will share these words with you all.

"Just coming out of a Zoom panel discussion, and wanted to share some reflections I found important.

In asking people to make change, please offer compassion to your fellow human being. It may be useful to consider what you want to draw out of the other person, and recognize their own experience. Consider that the person that you'd like to change may want that same change, but that they're in a radically different place in terms of their understanding of the issue. Not everyone is going to align with and accept the viewpoint that you'd like them to share, and especially not immediately.

Please consider offering others love and understanding. Do not alienate your fellow human with jabs, attacks, and/or hurtful labels. This does not serve either of your ends. Provide them space to grow, learn, and understand. You may hurt and alienate them, rather than having them support your cause. Create allies, not foes. Participate in unity, not divisiveness."

Best,

Cole Butler

TPAC Project Coordinator

University of Maryland

UMD ADHD Lab

2103W, Cole Field House | College Park, MD 20742

tel 301.405.6163

On Tue, Jun 23, 2020 at 9:27 AM Henriques, Gregg - henriqgx <[log in to unmask]> wrote:

Hi TOK-Thrive Community.

 

I just wanted to say thanks to everyone for yesterday’s discussion on fostering reflection about recent events. I found it meaningful and healthy.

 

I want to say special thanks to Paulihna, Rhea, and Shelly-Ann for putting it together and leading the discussion.

 

If there are materials you all are willing to share, please send to the list.

Best,
Gregg

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