Trauma is, almost by definition, that which cannot be initially coherently integrated into the psyche. It is the injury into isolation/alienation/rejection/control that fractures the psyche and then leads to all sorts of strategies to try and regulate and fix and structure, which then cracks not just the psyche but relationships, some times across generations. Can we build reflective, responsive spaces to help foster awareness and then acceptance and then more active integration? Best, Gregg From: tree of knowledge system discussion <[log in to unmask]> On Behalf Of Chance McDermott Sent: Sunday, October 10, 2021 5:34 PM To: [log in to unmask] Subject: Re: The Wisdom of Trauma CAUTION: This email originated from outside of JMU. Do not click links or open attachments unless you recognize the sender and know the content is safe. ________________________________ Thank you for sharing, KC, Gabor Mate persuasively argues for an environmental perspective on our mental health problems. The implications of his neonatal separation talks are particularly chilling! -Chance On Sat, Oct 9, 2021 at 3:34 PM Wilson, Katherine Christine - wilso3kc <[log in to unmask]<mailto:[log in to unmask]>> wrote: Those jumped out to me as well, Ali! Thank you for sharing. I also really liked this one: “Children don’t get traumatized because they get hurt, they get traumatized because they are alone with their hurt.” Gabor Mate The other sessions that have been posted on this 6-day series are also really well done and fascinating to listen to. Here are the links for those who want to peruse (my more organized self would have listed the titles- but all brainpower is currently on dissertation proposal- So you can play pick a random trauma talk and see what you get!): Trauma talks: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mdSbvLlN8oc&t=674s<https://urldefense.proofpoint.com/v2/url?u=https-3A__www.youtube.com_watch-3Fv-3DmdSbvLlN8oc-26t-3D674s&d=DwMFaQ&c=eLbWYnpnzycBCgmb7vCI4uqNEB9RSjOdn_5nBEmmeq0&r=HPo1IXYDhKClogP-UOpybo6Cfxxz-jIYBgjO2gOz4-A&m=m7fgUW_FIo9qi_6fGEdk8_PYS-KTATLE0g_YHAo6viA&s=hak3qOhaHXkJmybHpg6fEu3xDQA6NwtA3PsTMZYVzL8&e=> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oz65GPsmpMA<https://urldefense.proofpoint.com/v2/url?u=https-3A__www.youtube.com_watch-3Fv-3Doz65GPsmpMA&d=DwMFaQ&c=eLbWYnpnzycBCgmb7vCI4uqNEB9RSjOdn_5nBEmmeq0&r=HPo1IXYDhKClogP-UOpybo6Cfxxz-jIYBgjO2gOz4-A&m=m7fgUW_FIo9qi_6fGEdk8_PYS-KTATLE0g_YHAo6viA&s=bKc-ANOU5gwyvxntD6hpMCM9rs2U5BzbDKwxqbF_W8k&e=> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eoTPOuBG3bs<https://urldefense.proofpoint.com/v2/url?u=https-3A__www.youtube.com_watch-3Fv-3DeoTPOuBG3bs&d=DwMFaQ&c=eLbWYnpnzycBCgmb7vCI4uqNEB9RSjOdn_5nBEmmeq0&r=HPo1IXYDhKClogP-UOpybo6Cfxxz-jIYBgjO2gOz4-A&m=m7fgUW_FIo9qi_6fGEdk8_PYS-KTATLE0g_YHAo6viA&s=fvHlx1VUClP49C_dXnYGL3T8aVNDk1inn9FwQOwuss8&e=> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jIRxaZRrDiw<https://urldefense.proofpoint.com/v2/url?u=https-3A__www.youtube.com_watch-3Fv-3DjIRxaZRrDiw&d=DwMFaQ&c=eLbWYnpnzycBCgmb7vCI4uqNEB9RSjOdn_5nBEmmeq0&r=HPo1IXYDhKClogP-UOpybo6Cfxxz-jIYBgjO2gOz4-A&m=m7fgUW_FIo9qi_6fGEdk8_PYS-KTATLE0g_YHAo6viA&s=JVAucsGXWU9uOU1hu18bKCzbqMstGIvIIYQUlx-hiFI&e=> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2DEik4FT5K8<https://urldefense.proofpoint.com/v2/url?u=https-3A__www.youtube.com_watch-3Fv-3D2DEik4FT5K8&d=DwMFaQ&c=eLbWYnpnzycBCgmb7vCI4uqNEB9RSjOdn_5nBEmmeq0&r=HPo1IXYDhKClogP-UOpybo6Cfxxz-jIYBgjO2gOz4-A&m=m7fgUW_FIo9qi_6fGEdk8_PYS-KTATLE0g_YHAo6viA&s=fg8c1AhZMdxZxwHJ826FrTLj815ULbXwmp8HgxSw1iY&e=> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s10moYvJtWU&t=1s<https://urldefense.proofpoint.com/v2/url?u=https-3A__www.youtube.com_watch-3Fv-3Ds10moYvJtWU-26t-3D1s&d=DwMFaQ&c=eLbWYnpnzycBCgmb7vCI4uqNEB9RSjOdn_5nBEmmeq0&r=HPo1IXYDhKClogP-UOpybo6Cfxxz-jIYBgjO2gOz4-A&m=m7fgUW_FIo9qi_6fGEdk8_PYS-KTATLE0g_YHAo6viA&s=H_j8neZfJl45Rte3pmsmenla6uuM5gZUTF5lKiXEpAI&e=> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vsQEYmlZbHs<https://urldefense.proofpoint.com/v2/url?u=https-3A__www.youtube.com_watch-3Fv-3DvsQEYmlZbHs&d=DwMFaQ&c=eLbWYnpnzycBCgmb7vCI4uqNEB9RSjOdn_5nBEmmeq0&r=HPo1IXYDhKClogP-UOpybo6Cfxxz-jIYBgjO2gOz4-A&m=m7fgUW_FIo9qi_6fGEdk8_PYS-KTATLE0g_YHAo6viA&s=Fsvrw8v62UIKcVUpLpdvQv9aV6Q-ff1qlSUU4Acx8CM&e=> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NrRGd9WHLvA<https://urldefense.proofpoint.com/v2/url?u=https-3A__www.youtube.com_watch-3Fv-3DNrRGd9WHLvA&d=DwMFaQ&c=eLbWYnpnzycBCgmb7vCI4uqNEB9RSjOdn_5nBEmmeq0&r=HPo1IXYDhKClogP-UOpybo6Cfxxz-jIYBgjO2gOz4-A&m=m7fgUW_FIo9qi_6fGEdk8_PYS-KTATLE0g_YHAo6viA&s=RMx0zO8juxFn4AUe7uiwGw8TWZa4jVbQCM4YeIenzs8&e=> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4rMkqAUdro8<https://urldefense.proofpoint.com/v2/url?u=https-3A__www.youtube.com_watch-3Fv-3D4rMkqAUdro8&d=DwMFaQ&c=eLbWYnpnzycBCgmb7vCI4uqNEB9RSjOdn_5nBEmmeq0&r=HPo1IXYDhKClogP-UOpybo6Cfxxz-jIYBgjO2gOz4-A&m=m7fgUW_FIo9qi_6fGEdk8_PYS-KTATLE0g_YHAo6viA&s=U8emZWHGHdc2d5wTobKp1h_dRkrRl1T9vh_YOT-6ZUA&e=> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wASXQ2fptrU&t=3s<https://urldefense.proofpoint.com/v2/url?u=https-3A__www.youtube.com_watch-3Fv-3DwASXQ2fptrU-26t-3D3s&d=DwMFaQ&c=eLbWYnpnzycBCgmb7vCI4uqNEB9RSjOdn_5nBEmmeq0&r=HPo1IXYDhKClogP-UOpybo6Cfxxz-jIYBgjO2gOz4-A&m=m7fgUW_FIo9qi_6fGEdk8_PYS-KTATLE0g_YHAo6viA&s=3KSB9i7_6iXNuY-AQI99DfAmLdPsGozYZ7a_JxpeqXw&e=> With care, Kacey Wilson, Ed.M. Doctoral Student Combined-Integrated Clinical & School Psychology James Madison University *This message is intended for designated recipient(s). It may contain confidential or proprietary information subject to confidentiality protections. Any review, retransmission, dissemination, or other use of this information by anyone other than the intended recipient(s) is prohibited. If you have received this email in error, please notify the sender by reply email and delete this message. On Oct 9, 2021, at 4:21 PM, Alexis Kenny <[log in to unmask]<mailto:[log in to unmask]>> wrote: CAUTION: This email originated from outside of JMU. Do not click links or open attachments unless you recognize the sender and know the content is safe. ________________________________ Great recommendation! I watched this last night. Below are my two favorite lines: "How do you deal with not being wanted? You make yourself needed." "We don't respond to what happens, we respond to our perception of what happens." Appreciate the share! Warmly, Ali El vie, 8 de oct. de 2021 a la(s) 05:44, Joan Walton ([log in to unmask]<mailto:[log in to unmask]>) escribió: CAUTION: This email originated from outside of JMU. Do not click links or open attachments unless you recognize the sender and know the content is safe. ________________________________ Kacey, I would second that. I finally watched it last night (having had it on my 'to watch' list for ages), and it's the most impacting documentary I've seen in a while. I've forwarded it on to my daughter and some friends, who have an interest in trauma and the psychological wellbeing of our society. The more people who see it the better, I think. 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