James Carpenter:
Agreed. Volunteering to work with inner city kids can be a major philosophical issue. Having grown up in the inner city, Chicago Public Housing, I can say that the CPH place where I was VERY fortunate to grow up, was a dream utopia for families, kids, anyone. A volunteer would have found that place where I grew up. to be the ideal place for volunteering. There are, admittedly inner cities, and inner cities. Nothing is monolithic.
Michael M. Kazanjian
On Thursday, December 9, 2021, 09:28:58 AM CST, James Tyler Carpenter <[log in to unmask]> wrote:
CAUTION:This email originated from outside of JMU. Do not click links or open attachments unless you recognize the sender and know the content is safe.people wrestle with philosophy posing all sorts of questions- volunteer working with inner city kids is one challenging praxis, Michael
James Tyler Carpenter, PhD, FAACPwww.metispsych.comhttp://www.experts.com/Expert-Witnesses/search?keyword=Clinical%20psychology&keywordsearchtype=All%20Words&category=Clinical%20forensic%20&categorysearchtype=Any%20Word&name=James%20tyler%20carpenter&namesearchtype=All%20Words&company=Metis&companysearchtype=All%20Words&address=%20&addresssearchtype=All%20Words&state=MA&statesearchtype=Any%20Word&country=ALL%20(or%20Choose%20a%20Country)&countrysearchtype=All%20Words&page=1&freshsearch=1From: theory of knowledge society discussion <[log in to unmask]> on behalf of michael kazanjian <[log in to unmask]>
Sent: Thursday, December 9, 2021 10:19:57 AM
To: [log in to unmask] <[log in to unmask]>
Subject: Re: Parenting Books CAUTION:This email originated from outside of JMU. Do not click links or open attachments unless you recognize the sender and know the content is safe.
James Tyler Carpenter:
I am sure that people learn from many experiences. One point or question about marriage, I have heard, is whether Catholic priest, being unmarried, have the right to counsel couples who are either married, or wish to marry. That question intrigues me. So, theoretically, no Catholic priest maybe ought counsel a couple who are dating, engaged, married??? Hmmm.
Incidentally, in my childhood, I was frequently taken to Armenian churches. The priests are generally married, but within the hierarchy, the higher ones are not married. I have heard that the parish priest must be married to be a priest. I am not a member of the Armenian Orthodox church, so cannot speak for the current situation.
Michael M. Kazanjian On Thursday, December 9, 2021, 09:10:57 AM CST, James Tyler Carpenter <[log in to unmask]> wrote:
CAUTION:This email originated from outside of JMU. Do not click links or open attachments unless you recognize the sender and know the content is safe.he also said he learned as much about himself and life from marriage as analysis
James Tyler Carpenter, PhD, FAACPwww.metispsych.comhttp://www.experts.com/Expert-Witnesses/search?keyword=Clinical%20psychology&keywordsearchtype=All%20Words&category=Clinical%20forensic%20&categorysearchtype=Any%20Word&name=James%20tyler%20carpenter&namesearchtype=All%20Words&company=Metis&companysearchtype=All%20Words&address=%20&addresssearchtype=All%20Words&state=MA&statesearchtype=Any%20Word&country=ALL%20(or%20Choose%20a%20Country)&countrysearchtype=All%20Words&page=1&freshsearch=1From: theory of knowledge society discussion <[log in to unmask]> on behalf of michael kazanjian <[log in to unmask]>
Sent: Thursday, December 9, 2021 9:15:30 AM
To: [log in to unmask] <[log in to unmask]>
Subject: Re: Parenting Books CAUTION:This email originated from outside of JMU. Do not click links or open attachments unless you recognize the sender and know the content is safe.Dear Greg Thomas:
Negative. I am not a parent. I think I know what you will say. Only parents may talk about parenthood?? Sounds like Maslow, I think. Warning about overspecialization, he said he rejected the view that carpenters may touch only wood and only carpenters may touch wood.
Michael
On Thursday, December 9, 2021, 07:07:35 AM CST, James Tyler Carpenter <[log in to unmask]> wrote:
CAUTION:This email originated from outside of JMU. Do not click links or open attachments unless you recognize the sender and know the content is safe.
James Tyler Carpenter, PhD, FAACPwww.metispsych.comhttp://www.experts.com/Expert-Witnesses/search?keyword=Clinical%20psychology&keywordsearchtype=All%20Words&category=Clinical%20forensic%20&categorysearchtype=Any%20Word&name=James%20tyler%20carpenter&namesearchtype=All%20Words&company=Metis&companysearchtype=All%20Words&address=%20&addresssearchtype=All%20Words&state=MA&statesearchtype=Any%20Word&country=ALL%20(or%20Choose%20a%20Country)&countrysearchtype=All%20Words&page=1&freshsearch=1From: theory of knowledge society discussion <[log in to unmask]> on behalf of Greg Thomas <[log in to unmask]>
Sent: Thursday, December 9, 2021 4:36:42 AM
To: [log in to unmask] <[log in to unmask]>
Subject: Re: Parenting Books CAUTION:This email originated from outside of JMU. Do not click links or open attachments unless you recognize the sender and know the content is safe.Dear Michael Kazanjian:
Are you a parent?
Greg
On Wed, Dec 8, 2021, 2:17 PM michael kazanjian <[log in to unmask]> wrote:
CAUTION:This email originated from outside of JMU. Do not click links or open attachments unless you recognize the sender and know the content is safe.Ken Barish:
Thanks for the kind comments. As I have noted to Ali in a previous email, my book's (Unified Philosophy 3rd edoton) chapter 1 presents a general theory of metaphysics (mereology). It then applies this in chapter 7 for authority, management, freedom, showing a general theory of sociology, psychology, involving person1-person2 interface. Within that interface are subinterfces including those for parenting, government/cybernetics, management as narrowly defined, teaching, religion, testing, and so on. Medical, legal, and other professional interfaces come into play.
Best,
Michael M. Kazanjian
On Wednesday, December 8, 2021, 01:08:20 PM CST, Kenneth Barish <[log in to unmask]> wrote:
CAUTION:This email originated from outside of JMU. Do not click links or open attachments unless you recognize the sender and know the content is safe.Michael,
This is an interesting perspective on parenting. I will have to look into it and think about it.
Ken
On Dec 7, 2021, at 3:58 PM, michael kazanjian <[log in to unmask]> wrote:
CAUTION:This email originated from outside of JMU. Do not click links or open attachments unless you recognize the sender and know the content is safe.Ali, Ken, and All:
Chapter 7 of my book, Unified Philosophy: Interdisciplinary Metaphysics, Ethics, and Liberal Arts, 3rd edition, Cognella, is not specifically on parenting. However, it is on management, authority, communications, freedom, applicable to government/cybernetics, parenting, pedagogy, testing, leadership, and communications: person to person relations.
Taxonomically, it involves: mere communications or authority (dictatorship, bad parenting) parent never listens. parent never spending time with child. community based communications, good parenting where the parent listens. no communications, only communications and no listening bad parenting only community, no communications. mere spending time with the child, no listening.
Best,
Michael M. Kazanjian
On Tuesday, December 7, 2021, 02:38:09 PM CST, Kenneth Barish <[log in to unmask]> wrote:
CAUTION:This email originated from outside of JMU. Do not click links or open attachments unless you recognize the sender and know the content is safe.Ali,
I have several additional parenting books to recommend.
The Heart of Parenting by John Gottman, Ph.D. is a classic parenting book that presents Gottman's research on emotion coaching.
Michelle Borba, Ed.D. has written two recent books: Unselfie: Why Empathetic Kids Succeed in Our All-About-Me World andThrivers: The Surprising Reasons Why Some Kids Struggle and Others Shine.
I would also like to add my own parenting book to the list: Pride and Joy: A Guide to Understanding Your Child’s Emotions and Solving Family Problems.
Ken Barish
On Dec 7, 2021, at 2:08 PM, Alexis Kenny <[log in to unmask]> wrote:
CAUTION:This email originated from outside of JMU. Do not click links or open attachments unless you recognize the sender and know the content is safe.All,
The APA DIV43 (The Society for Couple and Family Psychology) listserv recently and (informally) generated a list of highly recommended parenting books. I thought I would share here:
- And Baby Makes Three: The Six-Step Plan for Preserving Marital Intimacy and Rekindling Romance After Baby Arrivesby John Gottman, PhD & Julie Schwartz Gottman, PhD
- Between Parent and Child by Haim G. Ginott, PhD
- Brain-Based Parenting: The Neuroscience of Caregiving for Healthy Attachmentby Daniel A. Hughes and Jonathan Baylin
- Now Say This: The Right Words to Solve Every Parenting Dilemma by Heather Turgeon, MFT & Julie Wright, MFT
- Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids: How to Stop Yelling and Start Connectingby Laura Markham, PhD
- Parenting from the Inside Out by Daniel J. Siegel, MD
- Parenting the New Teen in the Age of Anxiety by John Duffy, PhD
- Positive Discipline by Jane Nelsen, EdD
- Raising a Secure Child by Kent Hoffman, Glenn Cooper, and Bert Powell
- The Attachment Connection: Parenting a Secure and Confident Child Using the Science of Attachment Theory by Ruth P. Newton, PhD and Allan Schore, PhD
- The Boy Who Was Raised By A Dog by Bruce D. Perry, MD, PhD, & Maia Szalavitz The Price of Privilege by Madeline Levine, PhD
- The Gift of Failure: How the Best Parents Learn to Let Go So Their Children Can Succeed by Jessica Lahey
- The Good Enough Child: How to Have an Imperfect Family and Be Perfectly Satisfied by Brad E. Sachs, PhD
- The Good Enough Teen: Raising Adolescents with Love and Acceptance by Brad E. Sachs, PhD
- The Kindness Advantage: Cultivating Compassionate and Connected Children by Dale Atkins, PhD and Amanda Salzhauer, MSW
- 1-2-3 Magic: 3-Step Discipline for Calm, Effective, and HappyParenting by Thomas W. Phalen, PhD
If folks want to backchannel me (or via the listserv) with more recommendations, that would be lovely!
Warmly,
Ali
--
Alexis (Ali) Kenny, PsyD, LPStaff PsychologistLeaderWiseemail: [log in to unmask]
phone: 406.540.3411site: alexisckenny.wix.com/marriedinmission
############################
To unsubscribe from the TOK-SOCIETY-L list: write to: mailto:[log in to unmask] or click the following link:http://listserv.jmu.edu/cgi-bin/wa?SUBED1=TOK-SOCIETY-L&A=1
Kenneth Barish, Ph.D.
Clinical Professor of Psychology in Psychiatry
Weill Cornell Medical College
www.kennethbarish.com
How to Be a Better Child Therapist: An Integrative Model for Therapeutic Change (W. W. Norton, 2018)
Pride and Joy: A Guide to Understanding Your Child's Emotions and Solving Family Problems (Oxford University Press, 2012)
Winner, 2013 International Book Award, Parenting and FamilyWinner, 2013 Eric Hoffer Book Award, Home CategoryFinalist, 2013 USA Best Book Awards, Parenting and Family
2013 Mom's Choice Awards, Gold Winner
2013 National Parenting Publications Awards, Silver Winner
2012 Book of the Year Award Bronze Prize, Family and Relationships
280 North Central AvenueHartsdale, NY 10530Room 305914-949-0339
############################
To unsubscribe from the TOK-SOCIETY-L list: write to: mailto:[log in to unmask] or click the following link:http://listserv.jmu.edu/cgi-bin/wa?SUBED1=TOK-SOCIETY-L&A=1
############################
To unsubscribe from the TOK-SOCIETY-L list: write to: mailto:[log in to unmask] or click the following link:http://listserv.jmu.edu/cgi-bin/wa?SUBED1=TOK-SOCIETY-L&A=1
Kenneth Barish, Ph.D.
Clinical Professor of Psychology in Psychiatry
Weill Cornell Medical College
www.kennethbarish.com
280 North Central Avenue
Hartsdale, NY 10530
914-949-0339
Confidentiality Notice: This e-mail message, including any attachments, is for the sole use of the intended recipient(s) and may contain confidential and privileged information. Any unauthorized review, use, disclosure or distribution is prohibited. If you are not the intended recipient, please contact the sender by reply e-mail and destroy all copies of the original message.
############################
To unsubscribe from the TOK-SOCIETY-L list: write to: mailto:[log in to unmask] or click the following link:http://listserv.jmu.edu/cgi-bin/wa?SUBED1=TOK-SOCIETY-L&A=1
############################
To unsubscribe from the TOK-SOCIETY-L list: write to: mailto:[log in to unmask] or click the following link:http://listserv.jmu.edu/cgi-bin/wa?SUBED1=TOK-SOCIETY-L&A=1
############################
To unsubscribe from the TOK-SOCIETY-L list: write to: mailto:[log in to unmask] or click the following link:http://listserv.jmu.edu/cgi-bin/wa?SUBED1=TOK-SOCIETY-L&A=1
############################
To unsubscribe from the TOK-SOCIETY-L list: write to: mailto:[log in to unmask] or click the following link:http://listserv.jmu.edu/cgi-bin/wa?SUBED1=TOK-SOCIETY-L&A=1
############################
To unsubscribe from the TOK-SOCIETY-L list: write to: mailto:[log in to unmask] or click the following link:http://listserv.jmu.edu/cgi-bin/wa?SUBED1=TOK-SOCIETY-L&A=1
############################
To unsubscribe from the TOK-SOCIETY-L list: write to: mailto:[log in to unmask] or click the following link:http://listserv.jmu.edu/cgi-bin/wa?SUBED1=TOK-SOCIETY-L&A=1
############################
To unsubscribe from the TOK-SOCIETY-L list: write to: mailto:[log in to unmask] or click the following link:http://listserv.jmu.edu/cgi-bin/wa?SUBED1=TOK-SOCIETY-L&A=1
############################
To unsubscribe from the TOK-SOCIETY-L list: write to: mailto:[log in to unmask] or click the following link:http://listserv.jmu.edu/cgi-bin/wa?SUBED1=TOK-SOCIETY-L&A=1
############################
To unsubscribe from the TOK-SOCIETY-L list:
write to: mailto:[log in to unmask]
or click the following link:
http://listserv.jmu.edu/cgi-bin/wa?SUBED1=TOK-SOCIETY-L&A=1
|
