Dear Michael Kazanjian:
Are you a parent?
Greg
On Wed, Dec 8, 2021, 2:17 PM michael kazanjian <[log in to unmask]>
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> Ken Barish:
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> Thanks for the kind comments. As I have noted to Ali in a previous email,
> my book's (Unified Philosophy 3rd edoton) chapter 1 presents a general
> theory of metaphysics (mereology). It then applies this in chapter 7 for
> authority, management, freedom, showing a general theory of sociology,
> psychology, involving person1-person2 interface. Within that interface
> are subinterfces including those for parenting, government/cybernetics,
> management as narrowly defined, teaching, religion, testing, and so on.
> Medical, legal, and other professional interfaces come into play.
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> Best,
>
> Michael M. Kazanjian
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> Michael,
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> This is an interesting perspective on parenting. I will have to look into
> it and think about it.
>
> Ken
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> On Dec 7, 2021, at 3:58 PM, michael kazanjian <[log in to unmask]>
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> Ali, Ken, and All:
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> Chapter 7 of my book, Unified Philosophy: Interdisciplinary Metaphysics,
> Ethics, and Liberal Arts, 3rd edition, Cognella, is not specifically on
> parenting. However, it is on management, authority, communications,
> freedom, applicable to government/cybernetics, parenting, pedagogy,
> testing, leadership, and communications: person to person relations.
>
> Taxonomically, it involves:
> mere communications or authority (dictatorship, bad parenting)
> parent never listens. parent never spending time with child.
> community based communications, good parenting where the parent
> listens.
> no communications, only communications and no listening bad
> parenting
> only community, no communications. mere spending time with
> the child, no listening.
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> Best,
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> Michael M. Kazanjian
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> Ali,
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> I have several additional parenting books to recommend.
>
> *The Heart of Parenting* by John Gottman, Ph.D. is a classic parenting
> book that presents Gottman's research on emotion coaching.
>
> Michelle Borba, Ed.D. has written two recent books: * Unselfie: Why
> Empathetic Kids Succeed in Our All-About-Me* *World* and *Thrivers: The
> Surprising Reasons Why Some Kids Struggle and Others Shine.*
>
> I would also like to add my own parenting book to the list: *Pride and
> Joy: A Guide to Understanding Your Child’s Emotions and Solving Family
> Problems.*
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> Ken Barish
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> All,
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> The APA DIV43 (The Society for Couple and Family Psychology) listserv
> recently and (informally) generated a list of highly recommended parenting
> books. I thought I would share here:
>
>
> - *And Baby Makes Three: The Six-Step Plan for Preserving Marital
> Intimacy and Rekindling Romance After Baby Arrives *by John
> Gottman, PhD & Julie Schwartz Gottman, PhD
> - *Between Parent and Child* by Haim G. Ginott, PhD
> - *Brain-Based Parenting: The Neuroscience of Caregiving for
> Healthy Attachment *by Daniel A. Hughes and Jonathan Baylin
> - *Now Say This: The Right Words to Solve Every Parenting Dilemma*
> by Heather Turgeon, MFT & Julie Wright, MFT
> - *Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids: How to Stop Yelling and Start
> Connecting *by Laura Markham, PhD
> - *Parenting from the Inside Out* by Daniel J. Siegel, MD
> - *Parenting the New Teen in the Age of Anxiety* by John Duffy, PhD
> - *Positive Discipline* by Jane Nelsen, EdD
> - *Raising a Secure Child* by Kent Hoffman, Glenn Cooper, and Bert
> Powell
> - *The Attachment Connection: Parenting a Secure and Confident
> Child Using the Science of Attachment Theory* by Ruth P. Newton,
> PhD and Allan Schore, PhD
> - *The Boy Who Was Raised By A Dog by Bruce D. Perry, MD, PhD, &
> Maia Szalavitz The Price of Privilege* by Madeline Levine, PhD
> - *The Gift of Failure: How the Best Parents Learn to Let Go So
> Their Children Can Succeed* by Jessica Lahey
> - *The Good Enough Child: How to Have an Imperfect Family and Be
> Perfectly Satisfied* by Brad E. Sachs, PhD
> - *The Good Enough Teen: Raising Adolescents with Love and
> Acceptance* by Brad E. Sachs, PhD
> - *The Kindness Advantage: Cultivating Compassionate and Connected
> Children* by Dale Atkins, PhD and Amanda Salzhauer, MSW
> - *1-2-3 Magic: 3-Step Discipline for Calm, Effective, and Happy *Parenting
> by Thomas W. Phalen, PhD
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>
> If folks want to backchannel me (or via the listserv) with more
> recommendations, that would be lovely!
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> Warmly,
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> Ali
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